Tuesday, December 28, 2010

NOOOO comparison

I had my fiance and our kiddos meet me at work yesterday.  There is a gym located in the same building- the Sabes JCC.  We took a tour of the facilities and WOW.  NO comparison to our preceeding visit at Bally Total Fitness.  3 indoor basketball courts, 1 outdoor basketball court, raquetball, multiple class options, nice locker rooms, a children's pool, a lap pool, an outdoor pool- complete with diving board and slide(!), plenty of cardio, weight machines and free weights.  The list goes on: a sauna, whirlpool, steambath in the men's and women's locker rooms, a family locker room,  locker rooms for those under 18 (a safeguard due to sauna and whirlpool restrictions), 2 masseuses, a staff of 15 trainers, free towel service, a $50 credit to use as we please once we become members, aquatics classes, lifeguards on duty at the pool, a track above the basketball court, Sasha's place and the tumble room (where the kids hang out).  Sasha's place will feed and change your kids.  Locks available to use during your visit for your locker, or you can rent a locker.  A hoard of aerobics courses ranging from spinning to yoga to pilates to Zumba!  They also give us 24 guest passes for the year with our family membership.

WOW.

The club was so clean and friendly too.  It was big- but not so big that you feel annonymous or that the gym is a cash cow with a revolving door. 

They also offer a sliding fee scale so that regardless of your financial situation, you can still maintain your health.

I wish I had known about this place sooner!

My fiance is excited to join and feels good about the change I think.  I feel good about all the ammenities and that it is so family friendly!

No thanks....

I handed in my resignation from my Bally's membership on 12/23/2010.  I never even used it.  The more I thought about the space (very warehouse like and unmotivating) paired with the children's area not willing to fulfill my children's basic needs (food, water, diaper/bathroom - we're potty training our 2 y.o. now) I just was not  comfortable with the situation.  I went and surrendered my membership card, along with my very formal typed resignation-- which included where to find the rules of my contract (section 2 paragraph A in this case). I left my ice hockey game and uncovered, or in this case, attempted to uncover my snow covered car and hoped that I would get to Bally Total Fitness before they closed at 10p.m. 

It was 9:50pm when I stood at the entrance.  The doors were locked and a blonde attendant sat behind the counter.  I had left my phone in the car- believeing this would be a quick in/out.  I knocked, I waited.  Since the door was locked, the attendant had to get up (which I felt bad about because she had some sort of physical problem that hindered her walking).  I handed her my resignation along with my club member card and explained that I just needed to drop this off.  She retorted that I could not drop off a resignation and had to mail it to corporate.  I replied that "..according to section 2, paragraph a of the contract during the first 3 business days I am allowed to drop off my resignation to the club -- if I were already a member I would have to give 30 days written notice and send that to corporate".  She took the paper and said she would put it on the managers desk. I felt like I had been a bit of a "b" to the employee- I hadn't meant to and apologized.

I emailed the manager today to ensure that he had infact received my letter.  His email was short and curt.  Clearly not happy that I had declined my membership.  I hadn't planned on cancelling- it's not something that I do for fun... sign up for things only to opt out later.  Especially a gym membership that I have waited so long for.

In the end, I couldn't justify the lack of options and the lack of quality child care. That and my fiance is always telling me things are broken there (i.e. the whirlpool specifically).  The staff is probably worried about hitting their quotas and I probably screwed things up for them a bit in that area- but what they had to offer- blah.

To digress to the scene at the entrance of Bally's- I guess the argumentation class I took in college is proving helpful.

Referee Roundup

My return to refing, overall, went well.  I have to admit though, that I felt slow and sluggish after the first game, and by the end of the second period of the second game- I was wondering how I would survive the last period of the evening.  It was exciting to be back.  I had the opportunity to ref two girls' games- which was great.   One of the coaches during the first game, was confussed about icing vs. off-sides-- the call that I made and why the face off was where the face off was.  The "good ol' boys" club still exists...
coach: "I've been coaching for 15 years and that call was supposed to be icing."
me/ref: "the puck was shot from the red line, and your player preceeded the puck into the offensive zone.  The face off occured where the puck was shot from and the call was not icing- it was off sides.  The player was over the line before the puck crossed the red line."

The two coaches continued to attempt to tell me I was wrong.  This basic rule of off sides was clearly violated.  Another parent watching the game affirmed to my partner that the call and face off point was determined correctly.

So, it wasn't all smooth sailing during my time back on the ice.  The days afterwards my legs were sore.  So sore and stiff that walking, bending, kneeling, twisting-- was all painful.  I finally asked my fiance to assist me in two partner stretches that I remembered from high school track and field.  I've felt great ever since.  Clearly, even though I'm still in my 20s, my body doesn't rebound as quickly as it did even 3 years ago.  Again, I have had two kids since then- and that of course, is a major influencer.

My next ice hockey games aren't until January.  Tournaments will be increasing in frequency and tempers tend to flare over the plastic trophy that is at stake.

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Tonight....

Tonight marks my return to refing ice hockey.  I have not refed a game since March 2009 (following the broken nose fiasco on February 28, 2009). 

I'm excited and nervous.  It's been so long since I refed a hockey game- nearly 2 years!  What?! How did that happen- oh right- I was pregnant all of last season. 

I have 2 girls games this evening.  They are both U10 girls.  This level has a lot of variation in playing level and ability.  One game that I did two seasons ago- the girls were pretty much standing around waiting for the puck.  I'm not sure which is better- everyone standing around waiting for the puck or everyone on the ice in a rugby scrum-like mob. 

Both aren't great.

Reffing two girls games for my return to refing does remind me how I started refing in the first place.  In college, I was super early to practice- our time and place had changed to the youth rink in Moorhead and it was highly out of the ordinary.  Better to be early than not show at all.  In this case, I ended up assisting my coach with pre-practice prep and toting things between the rinks, her car, and the youth rink.  We were just finishing up when the U12 girls game that was set to take place between a Fargo and Moorhead team was delayed because neither of the refs had shown up.  I wasn't certified.  I was just a college goal tender with my coaches whistle (made to be worn attached to her glove) and red wind pants.  One of the coaches had to get her helmet for me and remove the face shield- as I only had my goalie helmet.  I was all over the ice in my red wind pants.  I just imagine what the coaches and spectators/parents were thinking.  What a spectacle! I would have failed  and probably been kicked out of my referee association had I refed like that post-certification. 

The point is, had I not been willing or able to take on that challenge of refing that ice hockey game (with no experience as a ref) those players would not have been able to play. How disappointing for them!

I love refing. It's a way for me to give back and continue to provide players with the opportunity to play.  There are some jerk coaches and parents out there.  It can be difficult to keep your wits about you when someone is going ballistic or being a crab apple.  It also shows the young female players what they can aspire to once they are all grown up and not playing on a team anymore (whether they realize that now- I will never know).

Being a ref also reminds me of how I started playing hockey "late" but was on my inagural high school team- how far they have come since our first team was formed 12 years ago.  How I will always be a pioneer in hockey- even if I'm not a Natalie Darowitz- will never see the olympics as a teammate - I could possibly see the olympics as a ref.  Choosing to be a ref is something I take seriously but also have fun with- because just like "Doug" on The Cutting Edge I love the smell of the ice.  It helps me set an example for my own kids in terms of physical fitness and helps me to stay focused on that fitness for my overall health and well being so that I can be the active and fun parent I want to be.

(Having watched Wall-E last night, I find myself more motivated not to become sloth-like.)

Sabes JCC- fitness center?!?!?!

I had no idea until I started working here that the JCC (Jewish Community Center) had a gym/ fitness club attached to it.  I wish I had known!  Especially when I was unemployed- they have a special "Pay what you can" program for those that have lost their jobs.  If I had only known....

Even though the club is at the Jewish Community Center- it is open to the public- just in case anyone is wondering...

Their club is clean and modern.  The child care area is clean and the staff is really friendly. They let my kids hang out there one Friday when I didn't have anyone to watch the kids.  There's usually more than 1 person on at a time in the children's room too.  Someone pinch me!

Right now, they have a "Pay what you want" promo going through December 25th. 

I have $2 in my jacket pocket.  I wonder if that is acceptable???  It would be really nice to go work out over my lunch breaks.

I picked up their personal training pamphlet this a.m.- they have 30 minute express sessions.  Perfect.

I've already contacted the membership department.  Maybe this will be a better fit than Bally's.

(My fiance keeps getting his membership fee raised without notice at Bally's and has been considering leaving because of that and the cleanliness is lacking- they reportedlycut their janitorial staff due to budget cuts with the economic changes.)

My Bally's "7 day pass"

Well, I got one or two things right regarding how my visit to Bally's would go.  My sales rep was from the east coast- Baltimore.  Second, I didn't get to use the "guest pass"... lame.  I didn't even get a workout in.  That's even worse.  We arrived at 6:45- dropped the kids off and I had to wait and wait and wait....  My fiance went to go work out and I got the "grand tour" followed by meeting another trainer and filling out paperwork.  Our youngest son got upset and I had to leave the meeting.  Resumed the meeting once I went to go get him. (Awwww- he missed me after I had worked all day!)  Once I was out of the meeting, it was 7:45 and the childcare area was only open for 15 more minutes.

My fiance had joined us in the office part way through the earlier portion of the meeting and asked what was going on.  When I told him he was upset and I felt badly that I hadn't discussed the decision with him.

When we got home, we looked at the contract more closely.  I was shocked- even appalled that the childcare people will not change diapers or give a baby a bottle.  How am I supposed to get a work out in at all???

I will be submitting my "give me my $ back" notice and contract tremination today.

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

The last time I tried this....

It's been a while since I've had a gym membership or even stepped foot into a gym.   I canceled my memberhsip at SNAP fitness after my first son was born.  You can't go to the gym and leave the baby in his carseat- that just doesn't work.  It's just not right- i.e. does anyone else remember hearing about the kiddo that died at daycare in MN for that???  My conscious does not allow for that...

The last time I was at a gym at all was after our oldest was born and L.A. Fitness was fairly new in Hopkins.  We had a guest pass.  I enjoyed the step class and my fiance enjoyed the cardio and free weights.  Our son was in the children's area.  When we went to pick him up- it was a mad house.  Kids running everywhere.  The lady working was very nice, and held on to our 4 month old son as if for dear life.  She looked completely freaked.

Then we met with the sales rep- James.  Oh, I will never forget James- the fast talking, let-me-make-this-as-confussing-as-possible salesman, that finished with providing us no clear information regarding membership rates, sign up fees etc.  The meeting finished with him stating "Well now that you have all the prices and information just let me know what you decide".  Then, like a vulture, he plucked away our 3-day visitors pass as if it were vile and poisonous. 

So much for the visitors pass- apparently, you have to forfeit it to the sales rep upon entry and the remaining "free" days- are allowed to you once you have decided you want to become a member.  I clearly remember James stating "Ok, so once you make a decision to join, then you can come back and use the other two days."  That's not a 3-day guest pass.

Today, I have a 7-day guest pass to Bally's in St Louis Park.  I can't help but wonder how this is going to play out.  I've already recieved an email from the club's general manager. And a sales rep with an east coast Long Island accent left me a voicemail within moments of my request for a guest pass was submitted.  His name is Johnny.  Immediately, images of an individual mimicing Jersey Shore's too-tan cast with too-tight tank tops, and too much muscle come to mind. 

This should be interesting.

On a positive note, the child care area at Bally's has a 2 child per family and 2 hour limit. And there can only be 8 kids in the room at a time.  At least they have crowd control.

I looked into their class schedule- it was less than appealing.  They only have 1 studio at this location, and the variety of classes is lacking. 

I did visit Bally's with a guest pass my fiance gave me once before (pre-kiddos).  It was ok.  The hot tub was broken- which I'm told is often the case. They do have a sauna- which I always like to have.

The gym used to be so much apart of my lifestyle.  It was what I would do before and after work or class.  I considered myself a runner, a weight lifter, and athletic.  I still consider myself these things but it's not reflected in my day to day life, nor has it been for the last 3 years.  3 years- wow- where did the time go? 

It'll be interesting to see what happens at my visit this evening. 

Sunday, October 31, 2010

Refing seminar

Yesterday, I attended a USA ice hockey referee clinic- which is a mandatory task each year you want to ref. Overall, it went well- for not skating in almost 2 years anyway. I admit that I was the first ref to take a fall on the ice. Another, older ref gave the" you owe me a beer" signal. A few minutes later, he was down on his keester. That's usually how those things work isn't it? You make fun of someone and then you find yourself in the same spot. This type of picking is expected at these clinics, so I took it all in stride with a big smile and laughing it off. Later, when we had circled up at center ice, following the warm up, one of the instructors made a point of mentioning that when the level 4 refs" shoot the duck" they fall. None of the level 2 refs fell during shoot the duck. His comment made me feel justified in falling earlier.

Again, for at least the third year in a row, I was the only female level 2 referee on the ice. Women refs are a rare breed in ice hockey. New referees, in general, only 10 to 20% come back for the next season. In my own district, there are only 4-6 women refs each year. I mentored a first year female ref one year for one game- I haven't seen her, or her name on any communications or at any events.

There is a glass ceiling in refereeing- women refs in the NHL for example. The district 1 referee in chief, had officiated some of my college games, and I asked afterward what I have to do to move up in the referee world. He gave me a list, and told me it was too late this year to do h.s. league because everything was already assigned. I told him that was ok, and I hadn't expected to move up to that level this year since I had a baby in June. I think I surprised him in my resoponse, that I needed to know so I can work towards it.

Overall, it felt really good to skate yesterday. I am reminded of muscles I had forgotten about.
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Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Anxious....

Its been difficult to stay on track with my return to work, my fiancees return to school and new work schedule.  I'm eager to get a gym membership again- one with childcare- now that I'm working again.  I had to give up my Snap Fitness membership because of lack of child care and lack of cash flow.

When I went up to Fargo-Moorhead for homecoming- I wasn't ready to run the 5k.  On a positive note, I was able to run at the hotel fitness center- I only ran for 20 minutes but it was a mile and a half straight- without stopping or slowing.  Towards the end I was challenging myself to run faster each quarter mile.  It felt good.

I'm eager to run more and have the "click" that I've felt with running before. To run a 5K or more.  To be a good example for my kids and to feel like I can and am able to run and play with them without a problem.

Monday, August 2, 2010

Reporting in with the running....

This is my second full week of running- and it's going pretty well.  I've been following the plan from the Fitness R/X magazine that I had in my three ring binders stuffed with workout information.  Since I'm not completely new to running- I started at the beginning as suggested but then gauged how easy the workouts were.  I skipped forward a few days because jogging for 30 seconds and even a minute was a bit too easy for me.  I was excited to do this since I was worried about starting to run so soon after delivering our second child via c-section.  There was no way to know how well my body was going to do with recovery this time or with running.  I am excited to report- that I am already weighing less than right before I got pregnant!  Just 5 more pounds to my first weight goal (putting me just under 160).

I skipped 5 days total- which sounds like a lot now that I think about it!  Since I started the running program- I've lost 2 inches and average daily weight is down 3-4 pounds from where it was.  Currently, I'm walking 5 minutes and jogging 4 minutes- which is not impossible but I can feel how hard it is on my body- specifically my knees.  I've always been worried about shin splints since they plagued me in my middle school and high school track and field days but so far they have been kept at bay.  I've also been acutely aware of my foot strike as I have been walking and jogging- hoping to keep the shin splints and other injuries away.  To digress back to the knees though- ouch! I think I might have to start taking a supplement for them- I took one in the past from GNC called GLucosamine/Chondroitin and it seemed to help.  I think those are again in order.  But I'll keep working on the mechanics of this running thing.  I had to be more mindful of them today because 1. my ipod battery died and 2. the pain has only intensified.

I was talking to my fiance's cousin about my starting to run again and she mentioned how she would love to start running too.  We talked about how it can be  hard to start- especially when  you don't know what kind of pace to start out at- how much is too much- what will discourage you.  I've had a desire to be a runner for a very long time.  I was sad in the first grade when in my heat of the 50 yard dash I came in 4th.  The older boy that I sort of knew from school saw I was disappointed and told me that I should be very happy with fourth place as I looked down in dismay at my yellow ribbon.  I still have that ribbon somewhere.  My desire to run continued in elementary school- where my gym teacher at Poplar Bridge in Bloomington, MN always had us running relays and around this make shift track he would set up with orange cones.  I joined my middle school cross country team in the 6th grade for intermurals- still wanting to be this great runner, and joining the track  team over and over again through middle and high school but could never get this running thing down.  In high school, I remember the day you have to suddenly run a mile and be timed.  What kind of test is that?  When they don't really teach you how to run or help you get conditioned to run?  That's not very helpful to just say 'all right- today is the day we run a mile'.  I realize they probably have to do this test for some requirement- but at least help us with it somehow.  My very earliest memory of running is with my neighbor on Como Ave- he would his two daughters along with him and I would go sometimes too- we would run around the track by Como Ave and Highway 280 behind Health Partners.  Always a terrible terrible runner- no stamina. Period. 

In College, my sophomore- something clicked with me and running.  I would go grab a treadmill in the fitness center and just go- tune into my favorite program on my personal television and escape.  Since I was watching and listening to something else I didn't have time to think about what was hurting or burning or how out of breath I was getting.  This sudden "clicking" of the running on a treadmill and not getting shin splints- I loved.

Now to get that back and back into those jeans I had bought two years earlier.  I still have the jeans- they are my ultimate goal.  When I get to put the jeans back on again- I'll probably be 130-something.  I really like those jeans- and I really liked the way I felt when I could do all of that running.

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Gettting back to running...

I found an 8 week long program in the magazine pages I kept to ease back into running.  I'm excited to get started and work up to a 5k.  It would be great to run the 5k for homecoming at Concordia- but that might be a bit too soon for me to run that far.

Here's the program I'm starting from Fitness R/X magazine in August 2006:

Week 1:
Monday: Walk for 20 minutes at a comfortable pace. Since this is your first workout, take it nice and easy. Walk at a pace that gets your heart rate up and makes you breathe heavier than normal, but you shouldn't be out of breath.

Tuesday: Walk for 30 minutes at a comfortable pace.

Wednesday: Walk for 30 minutes at a comfortable pace.

Thursday: Walk /jog for 30 minutes. Walk for five minutes and then jog for 30 seconds. Follow that sequence for the entire workout. This is your first taste of running. Don't run for more than 30 seconds at a time. Run at a pace that is fairly comfortable.

Friday: Rest. Let your body recover from its first encounter with running.

Saturday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Walk for 5 minutes, jog for 30 seconds. This is the same workout as Thursday. Keep your pace comfortable.

Sunday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. You make a slight increase in the jogging interval here. Walk for five minutes and jog for one minute. You'll start making consistent increases in the time of your running intervals.

Week 2:
Monday: Rest. Every Monday is a rest day in this program.

Tuesday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Walk for five minutes and jog for one minute. Keep the pace fairly comfortable.

Wednesday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes.  This will be an easy day. Walk for five minutes and jog for 30 seconds.

Thursday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes.  Walk for five minutes and jog for one minute.

Friday: Rest

Saturday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Walk for five minutes and jog for two minutes.

Sunday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Walk for five minutes and jog for two minutes.

Week 3:
Monday: Rest.

Tuesday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Walk for five minutes and jog for three minutes. Keep the pace nice and easy.

Wednesday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes.  Walk for five minutes and jog for two minutes.

Thursday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Walk for five minutes and jog for three minutes.

Friday: Rest

Saturday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Walk for five minutes, jog for four minutes.

Sunday:Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Walk for five minutes, jog for four minutes.

Week 4:
Monday: Rest.

Tuesday: Walk for 30 minutes.  You eliminate the running portion for this workout because you have made a lot of increases in the last two weeks. This will give your body a little more rest this week.

Wednesday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Walk for five minutes, jog for five minutes.  You are now jogging as much as you are walking. Remember to keep the pace fairly comfortable.

Thursday: Walk/ jog for 30 minutes.  Walk for five minutes, jog for four minutes. You back off a bit today to recover from yesterday's harder workout.

Friday: Rest..

Saturday: Today you'll start to decrease the amount of your walking intervals. Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Walk for four minutes, jog for five minutes.

Sunday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes.  Walk for four minutes and jog for five minutes.

Week 5:
Monday:Rest.

Tuesday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. You'll make another decrease in your walking interval today. Walk for three minutes, jog for five minutes.

Wednesday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Walk for four minutes and jog for five minutes.

Thursday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes.  Walk for three minutes, and jog for five minutes.

Friday: Rest or cross train.

Saturday: Walk/ jog for 30 minutes.  Decrease your walking interval to two minutes. Walk two minutes, jog for five minutes.

Sunday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Walk for two minutes and jog for five minutes.

 Week 6:
Monday: Rest.

Tuesday: Walk/jog for thirty minutes. Decrease your walking interval to one minute. Walkd for one minute and jog for five minutes. If at any time you feel you're struggling, back off to the prior week or to a point at which you feel more comfortable. Remember, however, that you must push yourself to make improvements.

Wednesday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Walk for two minutes and jog for five minutes.

Thursday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes.  Walk for one minute and jog for five minutes.

Friday: Rest.

Saturday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Today, you'll decrease your walking interval to 30 seconds. Walk for 30 seconds and jog for five minutes.

Sunday: Walk/ jog for 30 minutes. Walk for 30 seconds and jog for five minutes.

Week 7:
Monday: Rest.

Tuesday: Today you're going to do something different. Warm up with vigorous walking for 10 minutes and then jog 2x1 mile repeats.  To perform this workout, jog one mile and then walk for five minutes. Then jog another mile.  Cool down with 10 minutes of walking.

Wednesday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Walk for 30 seconds, jog for five minutes.

Thursday: you'll extend the distance of your workout today.  After a 10 minute warm up, jog for 1.25 miles.  Cool down with 10 minutes of walking.

Friday: Rest.

Saturday: Warm up for 10 minutes. Jog 2x1 mile repeats. Cool down with 10 minutes of walking.

Sunday: You'll extend your workout again today. Warm up by walking 10 minutes. Jog for 1.5 miles.  Cool down with 10 minutes of walking.

Week 8:

Monday: Rest.

Tuesday: Warm up by walking 10 minutes. Jog 2x1 mile repeats. Cool down with 10 minutes of walking.

Wednesday: Walk/jog for 30 minutes. Walk for 30 seconds, jog for five minutes.

Thursday: Warm up by walking for 10 minutes. Jog for 1.75 miles. Cool down with 10 minutes of walking.

Friday: Rest.

Saturday: Warm up with 10 minutes of walking. Jog for two miles. Cool down with 10 minutes of walking.

Sunday: Warm up for 10 minutes. Jog for 2.25 miles. Cool down with 10 minutes of walking.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

New Arrival...

 My prediction was correct - our son arrived a week earlier than the scheduled c-section. Which was two weeks early from my estimated due date (July 2).  I'm thrilled that he is here and so far- seems like an excellent eater AND sleeper.  Big brother is doing really well also- he helps when he can and has not shown a single sign of aggression or jealousy.  AMAZING! LOVE IT!  Even though he was two weeks early- the new guy weighed in at exactly 8 pounds and 20 inches long.  Since I had already been to the hospital two other times in the past month, I was worried that I was blowing things out of proportion but my doctor said that I did the right thing calling her and coming in- this baby was ready! 

Recovery is already a lot easier than last time- but we'll see what happens.  One of my nurses got a bit off on my pain killer medications and I could definitely tell a difference.I walk around.... or shuffle my feet around like I'm going on 100 and not 28. I'm hopeful because of opting to go straight to the O.R. and not laboring- my body is exhausted but not doubly exhausted..

Speaking of exhausted- I'm off to feed the new guy and head to bed.

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

The end of this pregnancy....

It almost ended a whole MONTH early.  That was a bit of a shock- lying in bed asleep to find that our bed was soaked.  Nothing was packed and ready to go- afterall, we had a whole month to go right?  I called the Doctor and she said that yes- she agreed it sounded like my water had broken.  I went to the MAC, and stayed the entire night- contractions varying from every 3-7 minutes.  It looked like it was going to happen. Forget the month to go- forget the second scheduled c-section....

7am rolls around- everything stopped.  No more contractions- nothing.

My doctor says it was probably a rupture- the nurse who I spoke with the discuss the day-of c-section items with said it was probably one layer of the membrane that ruptured and not the whole thing. (This explains why some women have their water break multiple times).  The doctor says when/ if it happens again- it will be "IT".

I'm eager to meet baby number two- take the two kiddos on walks and build up to running again.  I had just started running again before finding out I was pregnant again.  I refused to run at an unhealthy weight (more than 20 lbs over is considered harmful to your joints and can cause extra, unneeded injuries).

Thus far, I've gained a mere 18 lbs- in contrast to the 30-35 I gained with our son.  That makes me hopeful that I'll get fitter faster- after all, I won't have to battle the same number of pounds - SO happy about that.

What I'm not looking forward to is the exhaustion- but who does?

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

A quarterly report....

I haven't been on here in forever.  That's what happens when you have a toddler to chase after between naps and prenatal visits.  This Friday marks week 33 of our second pregnancy.  So far, I've gained a mere 10 pounds.  I'm excited about that- less to lose afterwards.  The doctors and nurses say its fine because it has been consistent.  When I expressed my concern about having a higher BMI to start with and a portion of my family that has struggled with their weight they  reassured me that I was just fine- especially since there hadn't been large jumps in my weight gain between any of my vists. 

Others have not been so supportive or understanding.  I had one appointment where I was told "You need to gain 4 pounds in one month ."  I walked away and wondered- what if I don't gain 4 pounds? What if I CAN'T gain 4 pounds?! 

So here I am- with about 7-8 weeks left of being pregnant- and then recovery and more mommy-hood.

Monday, January 11, 2010

3 months down... 6 to go...

I was getting a bit excited that my weight was starting to go down again- the lowest I've seen recently was 161.4 in early December. I was disappointed though- because what I haven't revealed is that I am, once again pregnant. We found out in early November and then had a miscarriage scare. A few things seemed to be awry- including cramps that nearly had me crumpled into a ball on the floor of a public ladies room one evening. After a trip to the ER- it was confirmed that we were still pregnant and our due date is estimated to be July 2, 2010. So I'll be chronicling my newly allowed weight gain here instead.

Now, I have new concerns- do I automatically go with a c-section because that's what had to happen last time? Do I wait and see? I've made a pros and cons list and no answer seems to be an easy one.

Our wedding is also currently scheduled for May 28, 2011- Memorial Day weekend. Now? The plans feel like they're in limbo. With no anticipated assistance from either of our families and no way to pay for it ourselves we're tentatively rescheduling at this point. Randy's concerned about just finishing his PTA program just two weeks before our wedding date, and I had hoped to be employed full-time by now but to no avail.

I will keep everyone posted. Thanks for reading.